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Lilly Lilly was diagnosed with: Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder - she will always have memory, time, math troubles and cognitive delays, but she is in a self-contained classroom with just 3 kids and 2 teachers; Post Traumatic Stress Disorder - she has basically grown out of this, though she still freaks out whenever she hears a sudden, loud noise; Institutional Autism - with lots of occupational therapy, attention, and socializing, she lost her autistic traits; A mood disorder - she is doing so much better now that she takes Abilify - a mood stabilizer, atypical antipsychotic. She is no longer mean, violent, moody, angry, impulsive, or manic; Cognitive impairments from organic brain damage - she will always struggle intellectually, as there is no cure for brain damage; Sensory Integration Dysfunction - we did private Occupational Therapy and she also gets OT in the school setting. She has improved immensely and no longer exhibits most of the SID signs and behaviors. Yoga and therapeutic horseback riding also helped; Language Delays - private speech therapy and speech therapy in the school setting. Her speech and grammar are still a bit eccentric and different, but she can communicate just fine with peers, teachers, and she can use humor and sarcasm. At this point, people don't usually figure out that Lilly has disabilities until they spend quite a bit of time with her. She still has trouble with understanding complex issues, logic, and sophisticated language. She is slower to pick up on things than other kids, but she fits in with mainstream kids and is doing great! |
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Alexis Fetal Alcohol Syndrome Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD) Anxiety Disorder Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD Depression Bi-Polar
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Sophie and Emma At the time of adoption Sophie did not talk, was lagging much behind her age, had emotional difficulties, and some behavioral issues due to worrying about being hungry. All are no longer an issue thanks to Jesus! Emma had severe cerebral palsy; very atrophed in muscle and very undersized (only 26 lbs. at 5 1/2 years old); severe stomach problems; she could not see due to severely crossed eyes and also needed glasses for distance vision; she could not chew so she could only eat soft, mushy food; she could not talk; and the saddest of all is that she was so "asleep" - she had no will, no drive, basically no emotion at all - she could not even laugh or cry and just gazed off into space (even if we tickled her, she just laid like a dish cloth); and so much more. But... Emma chews, laughs, sees, makes sounds, adores music, is trying to potty train, and... are you ready for this... EMMA WALKS! Yes, she walks independently. And we think the most important thing we can tell you about our babies and the progress they have made is that they did not know who Jesus was when they came home and now they know Jesus, love Jesus and pray - that's the bottom line of the whole deal! And Emma can even pray because we are all learning sign language and teaching it to her and she knows about 30-40 signs now, so she prays in sign language. |
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Nicky When Nicholas came to us at the age of three, he suffered from a number of Developmental Delays. The most obvious of these initially was a severe Language Delay. He had behavioral issues, was extremely “busy”, had serious Hearing Problems due to chronic unresolved ear infections, and shortly after arriving home we found he also had Vision Problems. He was diagnosed with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) and also exhibited several signs of Institutional Autism, the most pronounced of which was constant rocking accompanied by moaning. Now at the Age of 5 ½, Nicky is doing phenomenal! He is still a little bit behind socially and behaviorally, but not by much. His fine and gross motor skills are still not quite to an age appropriate level but he makes steady progress. His neurologist has indicated that this is partly due to the way his brain processes signals and is just part of who he is. Nicky’s speech is improving as well. When Nicky arrived home he had only a handful of poorly articulated words and did not make any significant gains in the first six months with us. This may also relate to the neurological processing issues he has. He receives speech therapy twice a week and talks all the time now. He still has trouble with articulation and is still behind for his age, but considering where he started he’s doing great! His hearing is now in the normal range after treating the chronic fluid retention in his ears, though his eardrums will always be scarred. He wears glasses to correct a lazy eye and other vision problems. Nicky responds very well to Ritalin for the management of his ADHD and is doing well in controlling his body movements, impulsiveness, and focusing on tasks. Almost all of his institutional autism symptoms have resolved themselves, although he occasionally will still rock if he is tired or bored. He is making tremendous progress and is a very loving and gentle boy. He is the absolute joy of our lives. |
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Jordan Jordan's conditions are as follows: Bilateral deafness; Functional heart murmur; Wide urethra in its bottom third; Right kidney – drainage problems at basin level. Jordan came home in June, 2006. Jordan seldom made eye contact with us in the first weeks. When first with us, Jordan made very few sounds. Currently he makes a variety of sounds throughout each day including sounds of laughter, excitement, disappointment as well as conversational sounds as if he is talking to us in his own way. When Jordan first joined our family he would play alone across the room facing away from us. Now he plays near to one of our family members most of the time, stopping his play often to give a hug, some snuggles, a smile or to initiate communication with us through play. Jordan, who is hearing impaired, seems to be transforming before our eyes with each passing day as he's experiencing love, commitment, stability, and care of a family. He is enriching the lives of his three brothers and his parents who are developing more sensitivity, compassion and acceptance of Jordan's special need. Jordan is adored by his family and is an enormous blessing. We know that Jordan glorifies the Lord in all of his new accomplishments. When people first saw him, he seemed pitiful to them as we could tell by their reactions. Now, when people see him from week to week or month to month they are amazed at the changes they see in him. Comments we hear are that he seems happy, he walks and runs better, he knows he belongs in a family, he looks healthy, he understands more of what is being said to him... To us, he seems to be more fully ALIVE. What a blessing to see his transformation by the Lord! |
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Danny Danny's conditions at the time of adoption and their progress is as follows: Torticollis - Completely resolved with physical therapy. What a blessing! Malnourishment and Ricketts - Diminished shortly after arriving home. Developmentally delayed - Now on target with all of his classmates - even ahead of the game! Asthma and Allergies - not even on medicines now! Praise God! TIC disorder - no treatment and doing fine - just some extra love from us of course!
My husband and I have been married for 7 years. We have struggled with infertility and do not know the reason why we could not conceive on our own. We were always open to the idea of adoption and actually started the process shortly after we got married. We first started investigating domestic adoption. More... |
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